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Mom Wrist, Mom Thumb, and the Body Ailments Nobody Warns You About 🤝
Sharp pain in your wrist when you lift the baby.
These are real, common, and treatable — and most mothers assume they're just part of the deal.
At some point in the last few months, you may have noticed new aches and pains. Maybe your wrist hurts when you pick up your baby. Maybe your fingers feel numb at night. Maybe your hip or back aches for no clear reason. You may have thought it was “just part of being a new mom.”
These problems are actually very common after having a baby — and many of them can be treated. Here is what may be happening in your body.
Mom Thumb and Mom Wrist 🤝
A condition called De Quervain’s tenosynovitis is common in new moms. It happens when the tendons near the thumb become irritated from repeating the same motions over and over, like lifting, feeding, and carrying a baby.
Signs can include:
· Pain near the base of the thumb
· Swelling near the wrist
· Pain when gripping or pinching
· A catching or sticking feeling when moving the thumb
Treatment can include:
· Resting the wrist when possible
· Wearing a thumb splint, especially at night
· Ice packs
· Physical therapy
· Anti-inflammatory medicine if approved by your doctor
· In more serious cases, a cortisone shot may help
Carpal Tunnel Syndrome 🖐️
Carpal tunnel syndrome can cause numbness, tingling, or pain in the hands and fingers. It often feels worse at night. Pregnancy swelling can press on a nerve in the wrist, and caring for a baby can keep irritating it after birth.
Some breastfeeding positions can also strain the wrists.
Treatment can include:
· Wrist splints at night
· Changing feeding or carrying positions
· Physical therapy
· In some cases, injections or seeing a hand specialist
Many moms improve over time with treatment and support.
Hip and Lower Back Pain 🦴
During pregnancy, hormones loosen the joints in the pelvis to prepare for birth. Sometimes these joints stay unstable after delivery, especially the sacroiliac (SI) joint in the lower back and hips.
Signs can include:
· Pain on one side of the lower back
· Hip pain
· Pain when walking, climbing stairs, or rolling over in bed
This pain is common, but that does not mean you should ignore it. Physical therapy and strengthening exercises can help a lot. Some women also feel better using a support belt around the hips.
Neck and Upper Back Pain 💆
Feeding a baby, looking down often, and spending time on a phone can strain the neck and upper back. Over time, this may cause:
· Neck stiffness
· Upper back pain
· Headaches that start near the base of the skull
Simple exercises and stretches may help improve posture and reduce pain. A physical therapist or chiropractor may also help.
Diastasis Recti: Still Important to Check 🏗️
Diastasis recti is a separation of the stomach muscles that can happen during pregnancy. By month 4 postpartum, it can be helpful to check whether the muscles are healing well.
If the muscles are still separated, it may affect:
· Core strength
· Back pain
· Pelvic floor health
A pelvic floor physical therapist can check for this and recommend safe exercises.
Why So Many Moms Ignore These Problems 💛
Many moms think:
· “Everyone hurts after having a baby.”
· “It’s probably normal.”
· “I’ll deal with it later.”
But ongoing pain can make recovery harder. Pain can increase stress, affect sleep, and make it harder for the body to heal.
Taking care of these problems is not selfish. It is part of taking care of your health after having a baby.
Your body has been through a lot. It is okay to ask for help and support while you heal. 🌱
